Muslims: We’re not all extremists

Opinion: Muslims and extremists — we’re not the sameBy Lauren Booth, Special for CNNSeptember 8, 2014 — Updated 1126 GMT (1926 HKT)STORY HIGHLIGHTS

• It’s depressing to witness the branding of all Muslims as the “same,” writes Lauren Booth
• Booth: Muslims are labeled as sharing the values of groups that do not represent our faith
• Extremist jihadist groups have focused its killing on Muslims first and foremost, she writes
• One ingredient for a long-term solution is the ideal of “fairness,” she says

Editor’s note: Lauren Booth is a freelance journalist and broadcaster. Her ground breaking work includes “Remember Palestine” and “Diaspora” for Press TV. In 2010 she embraced Islam. Lauren currently hosts “Talking Booth” on British Muslim TV. She tours internationally, giving lectures on topics including: The Media and Islam and Why Women Convert. To read more articles by this writer visit: LaurenBooth.org. The opinions expressed in this commentary are solely those of the author.

London (CNN) — “Here we go again,” I sigh, browsing news channels. Each one, leading with the chilling buzzwords: “Islamic State” and “Jihadist Murder.”

Not since the weeks following the September 11, 2001 attacks in New York has turning on the TV been so demoralizing for Muslims across the globe.

Lauren Booth

I have that same sinking feeling whenever an atrocity takes place which is broadly placed at the feet of the “Muslim world.” Because, “Hi, I am Lauren and I am a Muslim” — should there be a new support group?

What’s depressing as a “revert” (Muslims believe everyone is born into their faith) to Islam is to witness the casual sleepwalk towards the branding of all Muslims — wherever we live and whatever our lives — as the “same.”

As the wider community watches this dangerous pantomime unfold, it is significant that the question asked (again) of Muslim Britons or Americans is not: “How do we tackle these challenges together?” but “what can be done about ‘extremism’ in your community?” This question pushes millions of us outside mainstream society, causing fissures where fault lines already exist.

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